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Post by Kepora on Jul 15, 2010 15:48:10 GMT -5
www.furaffinity.net/journal/1548171/I can't get rid of this nagging feeling that I am at least partially responsible for this...when I thought Mizzy was really a woman, I had said on multiple occasions that "she" was one of the few people I would actually WANT as a GF...it's my fault, pushing him deeper into that depression because I think he thinks I was in love with the persona...I really do love ya, Mizz. You're one of my best friends, and the idea of never hearing from you again...it hurts...I miss you already...
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Post by Jessito on Jul 15, 2010 19:01:56 GMT -5
Meh, I had an odd feeling... Mostly the mature art.
As for the whole leaving thing - REALLY bad idea. It'll probably make any depression even harder to deal with. You're loved in the fandom, noone would really want you to dissapear (Holy fuckin' comment bomb!), even after this dramatic event. The most that could happen is a few people slightly pissed who had a real interest in you, intimately.
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Post by Shani on Jul 16, 2010 1:23:22 GMT -5
Leaving is never a good idea and I know this from experience. Btw, our Elliot here is a guy too and he's one of my best friends.
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Post by Kepora on Jul 16, 2010 12:34:14 GMT -5
I know! Hell, I play as a female on Second Life sometimes, and in art and RPs Talia is by far my most popular!
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Post by Darfix on Jul 16, 2010 15:51:58 GMT -5
I know Mizz and I've never really had much of a friendship going, but I am definitely sad to see this is having such an affect on him. I really hope he can pull through and accept that he hasn't really hurt anyone (from what I've gathered) and that even if he did, forgiveness isn't difficult to seek, especially from true friends.
Chances are you will hear from him before I do Kep, but I am sincerely and truly sorry to hear that this has caused so much stress for him. It'd be sad to see your relationship end like this because of something that, in my opinion, isn't even an issue.
Gender has no place in determining the survivability of any true friendship (or relationship) in my opinion. In addition, I also hope you can cope, Keppy. I am sure he will return, but the thought of losing someone dear to you is always difficult to endure.
I wish you both the best.
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Post by Kepora on Jul 16, 2010 16:14:33 GMT -5
What scares me the most is the lack of contact with him; for all I know, he could've acted on one of those impulses, or about to be, and I'd be completely powerless to stop it...Mizz, if you're getting any of this, PLEASE say something to us!
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